It's always hard to let go of someone who had always been in your mind, especially the one whom you had loved before. Few friends around me had been feeling down because they couldn't let go of the sad/happy memories they once had. It saddens me when I see my friends sad, or even wept over a bad relationship.
Recently one friend asked me... if she is weak and useless cos she couldn't control her tears when she coincidentally saw her ex-boyfriend again, and he reminded her of the disappointment and sadness over a 3 year relationship. The trauma was bad for her... and after two months of 'recuperation', she managed to move on and so-called got him out of her life (thou still left behind some debris to clear in the mind). So I replied her... that she is not weak or useless even though her tears welled up in her eyes after bumping onto him twice "accidentally" within a few hours. It's just human reaction to sadness and disappointment and nobody can simply let go of someone that easily. The same goes to me...
Recently one friend asked me... if she is weak and useless cos she couldn't control her tears when she coincidentally saw her ex-boyfriend again, and he reminded her of the disappointment and sadness over a 3 year relationship. The trauma was bad for her... and after two months of 'recuperation', she managed to move on and so-called got him out of her life (thou still left behind some debris to clear in the mind). So I replied her... that she is not weak or useless even though her tears welled up in her eyes after bumping onto him twice "accidentally" within a few hours. It's just human reaction to sadness and disappointment and nobody can simply let go of someone that easily. The same goes to me...
Well, just hope she could be happy again~
By the way, I also hope my "Bro" could get over that someone soon~ since there's no point in waiting for her anymore... Wish my "Bro" could be happy again too!
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