Why would someone make such a big fuss over two passport expiry dates?
Imagine that you had asked your friend for her passport expiry dates, as well as her friend's. She told you that she had not renewed it but would do it soon, as her friend had been extremely busy at work. She then gave you a date which would most probably be near to the actual date of renewal... Would you say these to your friend then?
"Why can't you just get it done and over with? Sooner or later you still have to do it."
"Is it so hard to just take a photo and renew the passport?"
"What's the point of me giving you a deadline when you can't keep your promise?"
Is there a need to say such things to your friend? It is true that sooner or later we have to renew our passport... but certain things had to be delayed for more urgent and important matters to deal with at that period of time. So can I quote my own example to tackle her "philosophy"?
"If you had planned to start a family in the future, might as well you find someone NOW and get married since sooner or later you still have to do it. Why can't you just get it done and over with so you might become a grandma at a younger age compared to others?"
It's just two dates to provide to the tour agency... what's the big deal anyway? Don't try to exceed my tolerance level, my dear friend~ but I do hope you could step out of the dark shadow that had been encompassing you for the past few months. Wake up from your "group"...
Imagine that you had asked your friend for her passport expiry dates, as well as her friend's. She told you that she had not renewed it but would do it soon, as her friend had been extremely busy at work. She then gave you a date which would most probably be near to the actual date of renewal... Would you say these to your friend then?
"Why can't you just get it done and over with? Sooner or later you still have to do it."
"Is it so hard to just take a photo and renew the passport?"
"What's the point of me giving you a deadline when you can't keep your promise?"
Is there a need to say such things to your friend? It is true that sooner or later we have to renew our passport... but certain things had to be delayed for more urgent and important matters to deal with at that period of time. So can I quote my own example to tackle her "philosophy"?
"If you had planned to start a family in the future, might as well you find someone NOW and get married since sooner or later you still have to do it. Why can't you just get it done and over with so you might become a grandma at a younger age compared to others?"
It's just two dates to provide to the tour agency... what's the big deal anyway? Don't try to exceed my tolerance level, my dear friend~ but I do hope you could step out of the dark shadow that had been encompassing you for the past few months. Wake up from your "group"...
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